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The Spotlight Isn't the Assignment. The Mission Is. Issue 19
Published about 2 months ago • 3 min read
Dear Reader,
Leadership isn’t about being seen. It’s about being aligned.
The Catalyst Perspective
The closer we get to a new election cycle, the louder the calls become…for candidates, for campaigns, for fighters.
Especially for Black women, the pressure is constant: Be the fixer. Be the face. Be the one to take the hits and carry the fight, no matter the costs.
And when we don’t run toward the chaos?
They say we’ve bowed out. They say we’ve lost our edge. They say, “She’s not a fighter.”
Let me be clear:
Black women are not society’s cleanup crew.
And leadership isn’t proven by how much weight you can carry, especially when it was never yours to begin with.
Fighting for your people doesn’t have to be performative. It can look like discernment.
Support. Stillness. Strategy.
Leadership is about discernment. It’s about knowing when to show up, when to speak up, and when to make space for someone else to rise.
The question isn’t whether we can lead. It’s whether we’re choosing to lead from a place of ego….or alignment.
The Power Move: Strategy + Perspective
Recently, I was asked again: “Will you run for office?”
It’s a question I’ve earned.
I’ve governed. I’ve served. I’ve led with integrity under pressure.
But leadership isn’t always about returning to the spotlight. Sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is choosing not to.
After careful reflection, I made the decision not to run, not because I couldn’t, but because I saw a capable Black woman already in the race, and I knew this wasn’t about me. This moment called for support, not spotlight.
For me, this is about centering the needs of the people and staying aligned with the bigger picture…… my long-term vision that we will see more women in government leadership.
Women make up over 50% of the U.S. population, yet we hold just 30% of elected seats. That’s not equity. That’s not representation. And it’s not helping our country move forward on issues that are impacting more than 50% of our population.
So my decision is about legacy, not limelight.
Leadership means knowing when to speak up and when to lift someone else’s voice. When to lead from the front…and when to build from behind.
Because the assignment is the mission. Not the microphone.
Leadership means knowing when to speak up
and when to lift someone else’s voice.
When to lead from the front…and when to build from behind.
Because the assignment is the mission. Not the microphone.
The Leadership Catalyst Spark
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A Quick Reflection Guide for Women Leading Without the Spotlight
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5 focused prompts to help you identify where your leadership makes the greatest impact, even when it’s not on center stage.
If your leadership depends on women……especially Black women, fixing broken systems, absorbing the tension, or always “stepping up,” you’re not supporting us.
You’re exploiting us.
Allyship means stepping back so someone else can step forward. It means using your voice to amplify—not override. It means resisting the urge to default to women to carry the load.
Share the mic. Share the work. Share the responsibility.
Share the mic.
Share the work.
Share the responsibility.
That’s partnership. That’s power.
Take Action Today
✔ Download the Reflection Guide and reconnect with your leadership lane. ✔ Forward this newsletter to a woman leader who feels unseen or overburdened. ✔ Support a woman candidate in your district—with your money, time, and voice. ✔ Host a conversation with your team: are we centering the mission—or the people?
And remember: The most transformational leaders don’t always seek the spotlight. They build legacies by centering the mission and letting that guide every move.
Vision. Strategy. Legacy
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